Severing Negative Ties/Protection
Tools: The only tool you really need is yourself. If you'd like, you can also use one or more of the following as an aid:
Sandalwood* - Protection, healing, exorcism, spirituality
Frankincense*: Protection, exorcism, spirituality
Rose: Protection, psychic powers, healing, love, divination
Rosemary: Protection, love, mental powers, exorcism, purification, healing
Sage* - Protection, immortality, longevity, wisdom, wishes, banishing (cleansing)
Violet - Healing, power, independence, psychic powers, success, protection
Black - Protection, counteraction, banishing evil
White - All colors, purity, peace, truth, strength in spirit, divination, meditation.
Anointing the Candle/s: You may wish to anoint the candle/s with any of the plants/herbs/oils listed below, or sprinkle them around the candle/s while saying an incantation, if you feel the need:
Turnip* - Protection, ending relationships
Grass - Psychic powers, protection
Horehound* - Protection, mental powers, exorcism, healing
Alyssum - Protection, Moderating Anger
Echinacea - Strengthening spells
Fennel - Protection, healing, purification
Garlic - Protection, healing, exorcism, lust, anti-theft
Honeysuckle - Protection, psychic powers
Chrysanthemum - Protection
Clover* - Protection, money, love, fidelity, exorcism, success
Sandalwood - Protection, healing, exorcism, spirituality
Frankincense - Protection, exorcism, spirituality
Rosemary- Protection, love, mental powers, exorcism, purification, healing
Sage - Protection, longevity, wisdom, wishes, banishing (cleansing)
Ground and centre yourself: Whatever works for you.
Circle: If you can feel the connection even within a circle, go ahead and cast one (however you normally would). You may need to feel the connection in order to use this spell. If casting a circle causes you to temprarily lose the feeling of the connection, I wouldn't recommend casting one unless you really feel like you have to.
Help: If you want your spirit guides/angels to assist you during the visualisation spell, then invoke them and ask for assistance.
Aids: If you're using candles, herbs, plants, oils, or anything else to aide you, NOWS the time to do that work.
You may want to smudge yourself with the sage, frankincense or sandalwood incense or smudge stick.
To make it easier, I'm going to use the mind as an example. If another part is involved with the connection, just substitute it.
Visualise your mind. Now see a cord flowing from your mind to his. This is his connection to you. Now, see a pair of large scissors of violet or white light. Take the scissors and cut the cord (or see your guide/angel cut the cord). This instantly severs the connection. The second the cord is cut surround your mind with violet or white light, immediately blocking a re-attachment. The bubble that has secured your mind now flows to engulf your body. You are now sealed against any future intrusion. Know that this barrier will remain against him until you remove it. Strengthen it as you feel the need.
Close: End the visualisation spell as you would any other. Make sure you thank any angel/guides who assisted, and any deities you invoked. Bury any aids used in this process, or toss them in running water.
If you see or feel him near, you can re-enforce a barrier. Picture your mind (or the previously connected area) in a chest (like a treasure chest). The chest immediately slams shut and locks, sealing with white or violet light…pulsating with the light, the light then spreading to engulf you.
You can surround yourself in white light anytime for protection against unwanted contact.
Others: You can consecrate any of the following stones or talismans, then infuse them with protective energy, to carry with you in case you need to borrow a little reserved power. You may even anoint the stones with one or more of the herbs/plants/oils listed above for added reinforcement.
Stones: Agate, clear quartz, diamonds, tiger's eye, hematite, Apache's Tear.
Talismans: Pentagram (pentacle), Rings, Star of David, Cat, Cross, Ojo de Dios, alligator teeth, bells, rattles, your totem, the Green Man - anything made out of a protective stone, anything you FEEL is protective.
Idea: You could bind the individual from hurting himself or anyone else, whether it is intentional or unintentional, but this is not something to be taken lightly.
By my hand: